Listen up Girls!
Do you all know Pat Robertson, host of the T.V. Show, the 700 Club? He's been taking a lot of heat recently over advice he gave on the air, concerning a husband's lack of attention and a woman's general appearance. The 'Liberals' were not very happy with the things he said, to say the least.
Read article below:
Pat Robertson: “Awful-looking” women are ruining marriages....
Pat Robertson placed blame for marital strife on women’s appearances this week, telling a teen who wrote in to Maxim Magazine about his parents’ relationship that it could be the wife’s fault.
Robertson decided to respond to the teen, who said his father played too many video games and didn’t pay attention to his mother, on his show, “700 Club.”
Robertson first said the wife might be too “hard-nosed” to keep the husband’s interest, then went on to discuss “awful-looking women.”
Robertson told a story about a woman who went to her pastor for marital advice, Salon.com reports. “She was awful looking. Her hair was all torn up, she was overweight and looked terrible,” Robertson is quoted as saying.
“And the preacher looked at her and he said, ‘Madam, if I were married to you, I’d start to drink too.’” *Robertson adds that women can keep the spark of love alive by “fixing themselves up” and “looking pretty.”
Ladies, Is Pat Right???
I underlined that last sentence in the article for emphasis. Why is Pat getting so much flak over saying things that used to be common knowledge? And guess what? The one who brought this article to my attention was a Christian man! He was 'appalled' at what Pat said and suggested he retire! Traditional values have become 'strange' to certain people, especially to those who grew up watching the Simpsons!
We haven't realized how much our "free speech" is actually being censored by adult peer pressure, because yes, we're allowed to say certain things, but by the time they get done with us they'll make us wish we hadn't opened our mouths! It's just another attempt to starve the truth and feed the lie.
My question to the opponents is this: what's wrong with men desiring their wives to look pretty? Even our own people jump on us now, and want to correct us. Shame on the husband, they say, he should accept his wife the way she is. Thereby making excuses for laziness, and rebellion! God is not with them in this, rather they have become sympathetic with the spirit and god of this world.
The god of laziness, the god of rebellion, the god of ugliness, the god of slothful living and procrastination. The god of excuses.
Our whole society has changed so much. For a husband to admit that he desires his wife to look pretty or take care of herself is now, deemed somehow degrading. Women's libbers have worked really hard to change our minds through the years and their brainwashing tactics have succeeded in changing the over all ideas of our society as a whole. So much so, that men are afraid to speak up now, for fear they might offend somebody and not only that, grown women are even ashamed to admit that what they really want, is to stay home and cook and clean and bake! And have children!
Of course they do! God their Creator designed them that way! He's the One who put those domestic desires in them in the first place. The world wants to squash that, and cause unrest and rebellion in the home. And they're succeeding! We each have to do our own part to resist this, starting from our own home and act like women again. We have to start doing and being what God created us to do and be!
Jesus said that in the last days, they'll even be saying such things as, "blessed is the womb that never bore children."
Ladies, we're almost there!
(Luke 23:29) For, behold, the days are coming, in the which they shall say, Blessed are the barren, and the wombs that never bare, and the paps which never gave suck.
What's happened to everybody? Men have become wimps almost over night! How did that happen? They've swallowed the bait, hook, line and sinker. It's easier for them to avoid conflict and just move over, letting their wives share the responsibility. He used to wear the pants in the family, but no more. They share those pants now, and it's getting rather uncomfortable as they both try to fit their whole body in the same pair of pants. Life doesn't make sense anymore. There are no clearly defined roles. Everything they try to do together is off balance and will be until one of them gets out of those pants and leaves it for the other to wear, and allows them to be worn the way they're supposed to be worn. Fully zipped, buttoned up and with dignity!!
However for the most part, in today's world men are no longer allowed to have an opinion about their wives' appearance. So consequently yes, they'll tend towards escapism and will lose themselves in video games, or football or golf, anything to avoid looking at their wives!
Why would they want to spend their free time with domineering wives, who look like, dress like, and act like MEN! What does the husband want with another man? He wants to spend his time with a woman who smells good, who talks softly, who looks pretty, who feels soft. A comforter, a companion.... someone who is different then he is. He's got enough buddies! He married a woman, but she's given in to the pressure and changed herself. She's become more masculine, more gender neutral, to blend in better with the world.
Ladies, a man wants a woman to be who God created her to be. He wants her to be more feminine, so he can relax and be what he is, more masculine. He's tired of competing with her. He doesn't want a weight lifting, kick boxing, arm wrestling, loud mouthed equal, thank you very much!
I'm sorry if I seem offensive to some of you but somebody's got to say something. I crave beauty, don't you? We're all starving for beauty! Our men are starving for beauty as well, and so then they go out and look in all the wrong places. They get on line and look at porn thinking that's what they want. But soon they learn that that's not satisfying either, it's the devils counterfeit for beauty! It's a well laid trap, a stumbling block for men. Yes, even Christian men, because we Christian women have also bought into the lie, that "it really doesn't matter what I look like, he loves me just the way I am." Yes that's true, but he has a God given hunger to be around the relaxing, satisfying and deeply fulfilling effects of feminine beauty. Being around genuine femininity fulfills something deep inside of him. What he needs dear Ladies...Is You !
Maybe that might also partially explains the gay mindset - the women refuse to be feminine so the men try to fulfill that need in themselves. The women refuse to act like women so some of the men try to fill what they feel has been lost. Have you noticed how gay men go all out in trying to imitate femininity? However they can't quite get it right, can they? Why? Because when you take off the wig and the makeup, and the fingernails, they're still men! What God has put inside of women can't be imitated. Only a woman can be a woman! There's a reason these gays are doing this. As the women are becoming more masculine the men are becoming more feminine, round and round it goes and the world keeps getting uglier. So is the reason more are turning to a gay lifestyle because they are starved for beauty and so they're trying to fill that need in themselves? Maybe yes, and maybe no, but if you'll notice, there weren't as many gays years ago when beauty was still around, and women dressed and acted like women. Think about it....
A typical man can't really verbalize what he needs. He doesn't even know himself how to explain it, all he knows is that the things he's looking for are not found in men. Men need women like it or not, and whatever that certain something is that men are looking for, women have inside of them. They were born with it, and it has value. You can't put it in a bottle and sell it, that certain something that all women have.
Think about it, that's why he married you, instead of staying single and hanging out with his male friends for the rest of his life, he married You!
We're all being brainwashed and we have been for years. It's been a subtle thing that has turned into a monster overnight.
These heartless women's libbers have laid heavy burdens on men and then cunningly tied their hands behind their back. They have taken away his God given rights as a man, as a husband, and then dared him to do something about it! They've preached to him that he's got nothing to say about anything his wife chooses to do, so keep his mouth shut. If he complains at all about the way the wife has let herself go, then he doesn't love her enough.
I'm sorry, but is that Biblical? Doesn't God want us to have self control, and to do all things in moderation or should we just say, "well I'm married now, I can just relax and live like an untidy, careless slob if I want to. Anyway, he has to love me, for better or for worse." Is that moral ladies? Is that ethical? What does God think about that, to put a stumbling block in front of your husband that way?
Ladies, I don't mean the husbands are not responsible too, to love their wives no matter what, but we women have to do our part. Women are supposed to be beautiful! Its Biblical! I'm not talking about coarse beauty, (if there is such a thing) or vulgar beauty, I'm talking about the beauty that accompanies modesty, and good taste, taking care of yourself and being so pretty it puts a smile on your husbands face, and your children's too. Doesn't the bible brag about Job's daughters being the most beautiful in all the land?
(Job42:15) And in all the land there were no women found so fair as the daughters of Job...
Do you think Job's daughters protected their beauty, so they could be everything God created them to be, or did they just let themselves go because beauty doesn't really matter? Their beauty wasn't just for themselves, it was a gift to Job, for all his suffering. Our beauty is not for us to glorify us or to bring attention to us, but for others. To sooth and relax them, to make them happy, just the way beautiful flowers are able to uplift you and bring joy to your day.
Doesn't God Himself describe a bride decking herself out, going all out trying to be beautiful for her groom? Isn't that normal and the way it's supposed to be? And isn't that the way it's always been? It's a God given desire put into the very heart of a woman to be as beautiful as she can be for her man! This instinct has been put into women by God and the world is doing its best to squeeze it out of us and replace it with UGLY! God wants us to be beautiful for our husbands and children! Say it over and over until you believe it and the world's junk falls out of your head, because believe me, we all have some of it in there whether we realize it or not. We have to renew our minds with the truth! Amen?
(1 Cor 7:34) The unmarried woman careth for the things of the Lord, that she may be holy both in body and in spirit: but she that is married careth for the things of the world, how she may please her husband.
(Titus 2:4) That they may teach the young women to be sober, to love their husbands, to love their children...
See....in Titus 2 he says we're to learn to love our husband and kids. Maybe it's just me, but I don't think that when we allow ourselves to get fat, lazy, and indifferent about our appearance is exactly what God meant when He said wives love your husbands, do you? They're the ones who have to look at us all day. We can't see ourselves, remember, except when we go out of our way to look in a mirror. But we're in our husband's view whether he likes it or not, hence the video games and golf and foot ball escapism.
So we see that men today, are being deprived of their beautiful wives who no longer take time to look pretty for them anymore. Did you know that most men take that personally, thinking we must not love them as much as we used to because we don't fix ourselves up just for them the way we did in the beginning of our relationship? The Lord said the same thing to the church in the book of Revelation, saying you've lost your first love. Do the works you did in the beginning. In other words when we were first saved. ( Rev 2:4-5)
When we don't do what we did in the beginning of our relationship it shows our love has grown cold, no matter what our words say. The Lord was offended and I believe our husbands are secretly disappointed with us too.
We need to stop being so selfish and rebellious, and get up and do some work on ourselves! It isn't vain! Its normal to want to look nice, its abnormal to think that ugly is OK when its within your power to make things beautiful!
Is your mind starting to come out of the fog? Were you starting to believe that good was evil and evil good, for a minute there? OK, then let's get to work!
Let's Get Beautiful!
Ladies, let's not just be hearers, but doers of what we've learned. This means we should turn the computer off, go take a shower, or better yet a bubble bath. Scrub yourself thoroughly, exfoliating all of the dead skin and get really clean, down to your toes. While you're down there give yourself a pedicure and use a pumice stone on your heels. Paint your toenails a feminine color and admire your pretty feet. Generously lather cream all over, making your skin nice and soft until you smell nice and feel soft. Now go wash your hair. Take extra time to style it till you get it just right. Are you finished? No! Don't stop there! With your lovely skin feeling nice and soft and your bouncing hair shining, do you really believe that putting on a scratchy pair of jeans and a baggy t shirt is the way to go? Is that beautiful? In your heart, you know that jeans don't fit in with femininity. So go to your closet and find yourself a pretty dress and put it on. Yes, even for just around the house. If you're afraid you might ruin it, then go buy a couple of dresses at salvation army for a few dollars. See, no excuses.
Now cook the family a nice meal, with a desert. It doesn't have to be elaborate, just that you made the extra effort for them. Spoil them, they're worth it. Be sure to take smaller portions for yourself with an eye towards keeping your figure slim, feminine and graceful.
In the morning try to do some lady like stretches, ballet moves or simple calisthenics. Learn to stand gracefully, and walk gracefully. Feel what it feels like to be all woman, with no masculine habits at all. Buy some flowers, and put them around the house. Make things beautiful, that's what women do! If you don't make the effort to do all these feminine touches no one else will. Your husband sure won't that's not his job, it's yours! He's the bread winner, that's his job.
Ladies, if you don't do these things your home will be cold and lifeless, sort of minimalistic. Oh yeah, there's a name for cold, its called minimalism invented by the world. See?
Young girls, older girls, ladies, of all ages shapes and sizes, please take these things to heart. This is a real attack on our homes. This problem is serious. Don't let the world's mindset invade your home. Be different! Be Godly! Be beautiful!